Devastated parents forced to pull the plug on their 13-year-old daughter after sleepover horror. Theyāve now issued a warning to spare others from the same tragedy.
When Esra Haynes died, she was just 13 years old, and the reason for her tragic death is bizarre.
This young girl who was referred to as ādetermined, fun, cheeky and talentedā by the Montrose Football Netball Club that she co-captained, got caught in aĀ viral crazeĀ called chrominghttps://comsoftvn.com/in-order-to-pickā¦a-tiny-stray-dog/, which involves inhaling toxic chemicals through the mouth or nose to get high.
Esra was an athlete and lead a healthy life, racing BMX bikes with her brothers, and leading her team to a national aerobicsā championship in Queensland. But all that was taken away from her after a wrong decision she made on March 31 during a sleepover at a friendās house.
As she wanted to be part of the viral trend, Esra inhaled a toxic amount of aerosol deodorant and went into cardiac arrest, sustaining irreparable brain damage.
Her parents were devastated. Appearing onĀ A Current AffairĀ with host Ally Langdon, they spoke of the heartbreak and the fatal consequences of inhaling toxic chemicals in an attempt to prevent something similar from happening to other naive young people.
āIt was just the regular routine of going to hang out with her mates,ā her mom Andrea, told Langdon in the interview. Her father Paul added, āWe always knew where she was and we knew who she was with. It wasnāt anything out of the ordinaryā¦To get this phone call at that time of night, (it) was one of the calls no parent ever wants to have to receive, and we unfortunately got that call: āCome and get your daughter.āā
Initially, her friends werenāt aware how serious Esraās condition was. They only thought she was having a panic attack, not aware that their friends was dying right in front of their eyes. āBut after inhaling deodorant, her body was actually starting to shut down, she was in cardiac arrest and no one at the sleepover used cardiac arrest,ā Langdon explained.
When her mom arrived by Esraās side, paramedics were trying to revive her and told Andrea that her daughter had been chroming, a word that the scared mother heard for the first time ever.
Esra was transferred to the hospital and was placed on life support, but just eight hours later, the parents were told that her brain was damaged beyond repair and that needed to make a decision to turn the life support off.
Knowing there was nothing that could be done, Andrea and Paul called relatives and family members to say their final goodbyes. āIt was a very, very difficult thing to do to such a young soul. She was put onto a bed so we could lay with her. We cuddled her until the end.ā
Esraās siblings, Imogen, Seth and Charlie are have been shattered ever since their sister is gone.
āIt was really devastating, devastating for everyone involved, all her friends as well,ā Paul said. āItās been the most difficult, traumatic time any parent could go through. We havenāt been sleeping, weāve hardly been eating, we havenāt been smilingāweāre not ourselvesā¦But itās not just affected us, itās the community as well.ā
Following Esraās passing, Andrea and Paul are doing all in their power to put an end to the crazy viral craze that took their daughterās life.
Speaking toĀ 7 News, Paul said he wished he knew of chroming when Esra was still alive, so he could have warned her of the dangers: āIf we were educated and the word had been put out there, we would have had the discussion around our kitchen table for sure.
āWe need to ramp it up and let these kids find out the information first-hand, and not through friends, and not through social mediaāthen theyāre given the right advice off the bat.ā
Esra isnāt the first victim of chroming. Over the years, a number of young people lost their lives from the consequences of it as it can easily lead to seizures, heart attack, suffocation, sudden sniffing death, coma, and organ failure.
āWeāve got the pictures in our mind which will never be erased, you know, of what we were confronted with,ā Paul told Langdon. āOur gut was ripped out.ā
We are so very sorry for this familyās loss and we wish no parent ever experiences such heartbreak.
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